How awful to feel guilty to be alive !! Hero's Desire was to Die with his Men in the Great Push of July 1 1916 The Daily Mirror London, England September 15, 1916 http://theoldentimes.com/etfsandys16uk_1.html
In Memory of Lieutenant Colonel EDWIN THOMAS FALKINER SANDYS D S O 2nd Bn., Middlesex Regiment who died age 40 on 13 September 1916 Son of the late Lt. Col. E. C. C. Sandys (Indian Army), and of Mrs. Sandys. Served in West Africa-Sierra Leone (1898-9). Born at Bareilly, India. Remembered with honour BROMPTON CEMETERY [The Times, Friday, September 15, 1916. p. 3]
LIEUTENANT-COLONEL EDWIN THOMAS FALKNER SANDYS http://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=gr&GSln=sandys&GScid=658429&GRid=24628939&