I have never been in the military, so maybe I am unaware of an obvious answer. Why are the headstones all exactly the same in military sections/cemeteries? To me, it seems like they want everyone to look like a cog in the wheel. Is that how a soldier is treated in life? Are they taught that they are not special, but just a small part of a bigger whole? I may be way off base, but that's my perspective at the moment.